I have a pretty low tolerance for things that don’t serve me. I don’t know if this is a positive thing or a character flaw, but it’s… Read more “If It Doesn’t Serve Me, It’s Not Around”
Very few people are 100% gay or 100% straight. It’s on a spectrum. I consider myself gay because I’m mostly gay. I would guess I’m around 80-85% gay. Because I was capable of being attracted to men sometimes I decided I would only be with men and I would “pray the gay away” because I was told that was possible. It wasn’t just possible, it was necessary. I even married a man when I was 17. We went to an evangelical Pentecostal church. That should tell you a lot.
2016 was a big year. It was full of discoveries and full of heartache. Change was the theme of this past year, but I have a feeling… Read more “Toxic People, Existing, and Choice”
My husband is collared by me but I still enjoy bottoming for him sometimes. If I am his Master and I want him to top me, isn’t he doing what he’s told and pleasing me? When I’m stressed out and needing a release, isn’t he serving me by providing one?